"whats the little donate button for?"
↳ Anonymous

Okay, so I’m being dumb but just… hear me out? Ever since I was 16 I’ve wanted to get my belly button pierced (yeah, yeah, it sounds dumb but I just… wanna rebel a little). My mom was cool with it but money got tight and to spend an upwards of $80 on a piercing seemed wicked selfish so I never got it. Now I’m 20 and the most I’ve got on my body is my ears pierced, once. I wanna get tattoos and I want my belly button pierced but I just don’t have the cash.

NOW, this tattoo shop I love is having a back to school special for today only where piercings are $10. I shit you not, $10. But my broke college self doesn’t have $10. I do have a paypal though and so.. yeah, if you wanna give me a dollar or just laugh at how a 20 year old girl is still hoping I can have the money to add things to myself to make me more ME, that’s why. You don’t have to donate, I’m probably gonna take it down. It’s just the illusion that I could do that today makes me kinda smile after the shitty week I’ve had.

That’s it. That’s why it’s there. I just… really want to do something to myself that’s not drinking a shit ton and being with my one friend because we’re more complicated than Game of Thrones and shower sex. (And if you wanna ask me about that train wreck, come to my personal).



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"How often do you answer the secret submissions?"
↳ Anonymous

Truthfully I have dropped the ball recently. I used to be on every day making secrets and answering advice and I’ve been so caught up in my own personal stuff that I haven’t been able to. I’m back now though so feel free to ask for advice and submit things.

I currently have about 5 submissions that aren’t repeats.

video #3 ;

As you all know, I’ve made two videos for this site (one & two) and now I’d like to make a third one.

I've changed a lot since I created this site, I've gone through a lot, helped people, and honestly I wanna do something for you guys. I wanted to make you bracelets and whatnot but honestly… I don't have the money to make bracelets that you all could get. If I did, I so would.

SO, I think that making a video would be nice. It can be about anything. It can include strangers, you guys, or just me. Any and all serious suggestions would be great! So… please tell me?

"I have no passion. There is no burning appreciation for anything. I'm mediocre. I follow. There is no fire. And this leaves me empty."
↳ Anonymous

Don’t be down on yourself. Some people don’t find their passion for years, some stick with something that’ll appease their family or friends because they’re too scared to follow their heart. It’s hard to find something you love, that no matter how much the job paid you’d do it, but trust me when I say⎯ you will find it.

Take a deep breath, enjoy your life, and let your passion find you.


There needs to be more body positive songs in pop culture and I think this is a great contribution. THIS VIDEO IS AN IMPORTANT THING.

"I was a year and a half clean and I slipped up. It's been 160 days since my last relapse..but I can't help but feel the urge to cut again eveyday..what should I do?"
↳ Anonymous

Take a deep breath. Think of something positive no matter how silly. And don’t cut. You’re beautiful so please, please don’t.

"When you find yourself drowning in self-hate, you have to remind yourself that you weren’t born feeling this way. That at some point in your journey, some person or experience sent you the message that there was something wrong with who you are, and you internalized those messages and took them on as your truth. But that hate isn’t yours to carry, and those judgments aren’t about you. And in the same way that you learned to think badly of yourself, you can learn to think new, self-loving and accepting thoughts. You can learn to challenge those beliefs, take away their power, and reclaim your own. It won’t be easy, and it won’t happen over night. But it is possible. And it starts when you decide that there has to be more to life than this pain you feel. It starts when you decide that you deserve to discover it."
- Daniell Koepke (via thelittleyellowdiary)
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